Being CRAZY :-)
Ever watched the movie Don Juan DeMarco with Johnny depp as the main character. He is crazy right but well he believed in his reality SO BADLY that he sucked his Dr. In the biginning of the movie he does an amazing direct approach on a girl. Notice how she tests his reality immediately (An amazing example of assuming attraction creates IT or not caring about it creates IT)
We must learn TO BELIEVE to and TO IGNORE what doesn’t fit our reality and manipulate it to our advantage. I recommend everyone to watch that movie scene.